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	<title>Aron Parker&#039;s Success Blog &#187; Motivation</title>
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		<title>THE Secret 2.0</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/05/17/the-secret-2-0/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 18:15:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Motivation]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/05/17/the-secret-2-0/' addthis:title='THE Secret 2.0 '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Here is it&#8230; THE SECRET 2.0! This is THE reason I was able to Fire My Boss! Like my vid? Please &#8220;Like&#8221; / Share<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/05/17/the-secret-2-0/' addthis:title='THE Secret 2.0 ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/05/17/the-secret-2-0/' addthis:title='THE Secret 2.0 '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p><strong>Here is it&#8230; <em>THE SECRET 2.0</em>! </strong></p>
<p>This is THE reason I was able to Fire My Boss!</p>
<p><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/8Uc50_papmM?rel=0" frameborder="0" width="420" height="315"></iframe></p>
<p><img class="size-medium wp-image-844 aligncenter" title="The Secret" src="http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/TheSecret-300x199.jpg" alt="The Secret 2.0" width="300" height="199" />Like my vid? Please &#8220;Like&#8221; / Share <img src='http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Are you happy NOW?  Will it ever get better?</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/03/27/are-you-happy-now-will-it-ever-get-better/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 22:59:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/03/27/are-you-happy-now-will-it-ever-get-better/' addthis:title='Are you happy NOW?  Will it ever get better? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>If you&#8217;re looking back on the past year (or 5, 10) and you&#8217;re NOT happy with where you are now, IT WILL NEVER GET BETTER. Not if you keep doing the same stuff that&#8217;s gotten you the results you&#8217;re not happy with. &#8230; you gotta change what you&#8217;re doing! It&#8217;s not working. If it was, [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/03/27/are-you-happy-now-will-it-ever-get-better/' addthis:title='Are you happy NOW?  Will it ever get better? ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/03/27/are-you-happy-now-will-it-ever-get-better/' addthis:title='Are you happy NOW?  Will it ever get better? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>If you&#8217;re looking back on the past year (or 5, 10) and you&#8217;re NOT happy with where you are now, IT WILL NEVER GET BETTER.</p>
<p>Not if you keep doing the same stuff that&#8217;s gotten you the results you&#8217;re not happy with.</p>
<p>&#8230; you gotta change what you&#8217;re doing!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not working.</p>
<p>If it was, you&#8217;d be thrilled with your progress.</p>
<p>But if you&#8217;re not, then it&#8217;s time to change.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how to do it:</p>
<p><strong>1. Get absolutely focused on what you really want.</strong></p>
<p>Do this by TURNING OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER<br />
and just writing down the answer to this question:</p>
<p>&#8220;What do I REALLY want?&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>2. Dump The Crap Out Of Your Brain.</strong></p>
<p>You do this by writing down a huge list of EVERYTHING you THINK gotta do to in order to do what you REALLY want.</p>
<p>Just doing that will kind of &#8220;clear it from your brain&#8221; and free up space in your &#8220;mental computer&#8217;s&#8221; RAM.</p>
<p><strong>3. Decide what&#8217;s doable.</strong></p>
<p>You know that big list you just made that&#8217;s probably freaking you out?</p>
<p>Go through it and put star by all the stuff you can actually do.</p>
<p><strong>4. Decide what you can do NOW.</strong></p>
<p>Now. You know all the stuff with stars by it?</p>
<p>The stuff you can actually DO?</p>
<p>Go through all of it and find the stuff you can do in the next 30 days.</p>
<p>Put two stars by those items.</p>
<p><strong>5. Screw the other stuff.</strong></p>
<p>All the other stuff can be dealt with later.</p>
<p>Now &#8211; let me address critics in the audience who want to debate whether or not that&#8217;s a good strategy.</p>
<p>&#8220;Isn&#8217;t that procrastination?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Isn&#8217;t that other stuff important?&#8221;</p>
<p>The answer to both questions is &#8230;PROBABLY!</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s the deal.</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t do anything about it right now, and if you worry about it then you&#8217;re just taking away focus and energy from the stuff you CAN do.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s not going to get you anywhere.</p>
<p>Also &#8211; actually DO the &#8220;immediately doable&#8221; things for the next 30 days, my experience tells me that your momentum will be so great you&#8217;ll actually be able to easily do a lot of the things from your list you originally thought were impossible for you.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll also have new clarity and will probably find that much of the other stuff on the list isn&#8217;t even needed.</p>
<p><strong>6. GET TO WORK.</strong></p>
<p>Listen.</p>
<p>If you get all caught up on the little details, you&#8217;ll be in the same place a year from now.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t let that happen.</p>
<p><strong>7. ACCEPT REALITY</strong></p>
<p>You wanna know something?</p>
<p>This is NOT gonna be easy&#8230;</p>
<p>But what other options do you have&#8230;</p>
<p>To keep living in regret?</p>
<p>To keep looking back year after year NOT happy with were you are TODAY?</p>
<p>STOP the insanity!  Follow these steps and make change NOW!  </p>
<p>You will be so glad you did!</p>
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		<title>Dear Friends&#8230;  I&#8217;m on a mission! (video)</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/01/22/im-on-a-mission/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 22:15:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/01/22/im-on-a-mission/' addthis:title='Dear Friends&#8230;  I&#8217;m on a mission! (video) '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Please &#8220;like&#8221;&#8230; https://www.facebook.com/FiredMyBossIn90Days Please Subscribe&#8230; http://​FiredMyBossIn90Days.com<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/01/22/im-on-a-mission/' addthis:title='Dear Friends&#8230;  I&#8217;m on a mission! (video) ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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		<title>Creating Opportunity</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/08/09/creating-opportunity/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 02:34:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/08/09/creating-opportunity/' addthis:title='Creating Opportunity '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>by Jim Rohn An enterprising person is one who comes across a pile of scrap metal and sees the making of a wonderful sculpture. An enterprising person is one who drives through an old decrepit part of town and sees a new housing development. An enterprising person is one who sees opportunity in all areas [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/08/09/creating-opportunity/' addthis:title='Creating Opportunity ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/08/09/creating-opportunity/' addthis:title='Creating Opportunity '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>by <a href="http://bit.ly/JimRohnSite" target="_blank">Jim Rohn</a></p>
<p>An enterprising person is one who comes across a pile of scrap metal and sees the making of a wonderful sculpture. An enterprising person is one who drives through an old decrepit part of town and sees a new housing development. An enterprising person is one who sees opportunity in all areas of life.</p>
<p>To be enterprising is to keep your eyes open and your mind active. It’s to be skilled enough, confident enough, creative enough and disciplined enough to seize opportunities that present themselves&#8230; regardless of the economy.</p>
<p>A person with an enterprising attitude says, &#8220;Find out what you can before action is taken.&#8221; Do your homework. Do the research. Be prepared. Be resourceful. Do all you can in preparation of what’s to come.</p>
<p>Enterprising people always see the future in the present. Enterprising people always find a way to take advantage of a situation, not be burdened by it. And enterprising people aren’t lazy. They don’t wait for opportunities to come to them; they go after the opportunities. Enterprise means always finding a way to keep yourself actively working toward your ambition.</p>
<p>Enterprise is two things. The first is creativity. You need creativity to see what’s out there and to shape it to your advantage. You need creativity to look at the world a little differently. You need creativity to take a different approach, to be different.</p>
<p>What goes hand in hand with the creativity of enterprise is the second requirement: the courage to be creative. You need courage to see things differently, courage to go against the crowd, courage to take a different approach, courage to stand alone if you have to, courage to choose activity over inactivity.</p>
<p>And lastly, being enterprising doesn’t just relate to the ability to make money. Being enterprising also means feeling good enough about yourself, having enough self-worth to want to seek advantages and opportunities that will make a difference in your future. And by doing so, you will increase your confidence, your courage, your creativity and your self-worth—your enterprising nature.</p>
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		<title>Are you making excuses to not workout or exercise today?</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/07/17/are-you-making-excuses-to-not-workout-or-exercise-today/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 18:46:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/07/17/are-you-making-excuses-to-not-workout-or-exercise-today/' addthis:title='Are you making excuses to not workout or exercise today? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Watch this quick video I shot today while it was 91° outside&#8230; (Click here to watch it on YouTube.) If you want to create the life of your dreams, then you are going to have to take 100% responsibility for your life&#8230; That means giving up all your excuses, all your victim stroies,m all the reasons [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/07/17/are-you-making-excuses-to-not-workout-or-exercise-today/' addthis:title='Are you making excuses to not workout or exercise today? ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/07/17/are-you-making-excuses-to-not-workout-or-exercise-today/' addthis:title='Are you making excuses to not workout or exercise today? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>Watch this quick video I shot today while it was 91° outside&#8230;<br />
(<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dl9X648dIOE" target="_blank">Click here</a> to watch it on YouTube.)</p>
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<p>If you want to create the life of your dreams, then you are going to have to take 100% responsibility for your life&#8230; That means giving up all your excuses, all your victim stroies,m all the reasons why you can&#8217;t and why you havent&#8217;t up until now, and all your blaming of outside circumstances. &#8211; <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060594888/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=aronparkerblog-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=0060594888" target="_blank">The Success Principles</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=aronparkerblog-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0060594888&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> (by Jack Canfield)</p>
<p>&#8220;<em>Ninety-nine percent of all failures come from people who have a habit of making excuses</em>.&#8221; &#8211; George Washington Carver</p>
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		<title>Happy Birthday Marines!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 23:10:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/10/happy-birthday-marines/' addthis:title='Happy Birthday Marines! '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>On November 10, 1775 the Marine Corps was born! I served from 1998-2002, most of which was at Camp Pendelton. Birthday Message from the Commandant and Sergeant Major of the Marine Corps&#8230; Here is just a taste of what Marine Corps boot camp is like&#8230; FROM THE HALLS OF MONTEZUMA TO THE SHORES OF TRIPOLI [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/10/happy-birthday-marines/' addthis:title='Happy Birthday Marines! ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p>On November 10, 1775 the Marine Corps was born!</p>
<p>I served from 1998-2002, most of which was at Camp Pendelton.</p>
<p>Birthday Message from the Commandant and Sergeant Major of the Marine Corps&#8230;</p>
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<p>Here is just a taste of what Marine Corps boot camp is like&#8230;</p>
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<p>FROM THE HALLS OF MONTEZUMA<br />
TO THE SHORES OF TRIPOLI<br />
WE HAVE FOUGHT OUR COUNTRY&#8217;S BATTLES<br />
IN THE AIR ON LAND AND SEA<br />
FIRST TO FIGHT FOR RIGHT AND FREEDOM<br />
AND TO KEEP OUR HONOR CLEAN<br />
WE ARE PROUD TO CLAIM THE TITLE OF UNITED STATES MARINE</p>
<p>OUR FLAG&#8217;S UNFURLED TO EVERY BREEZE<br />
FROM DAWN TO SETTING SUN<br />
WE HAVE FOUGHT IN EVERY CLIMB&#8230; AND PLACE<br />
WHERE WE COULD TAKE A GUN<br />
FROM THE SNOWS IN FAR OFF NORTHERN LANDS<br />
AND IN SUNNY TROPIC SCENES<br />
YOU WILL FIND US ALWAYS ON THE JOB<br />
THE UNITED STATES MARINES</p>
<p>HERE IS HEALTH TO YOU AND TO OUR CORPS<br />
WHICH WE ARE PROUD TO SERVE<br />
IN MANY A STRIFE WE FOUGHT FOR LIFE<br />
AND NEVER LOST OUR NERVE<br />
IF THE ARMY AND THE NAVY EVER LOOKED ON HEAVEN&#8217;S SCENE<br />
THEY WILL FIND THE STREETS ARE GUARDED<br />
BY UNITED STATES MARINES</p>
<p>HAPPY BIRTHDAY MARINES PAST PRESENT AND FUTURE</p>
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		<title>My Attitude Toward Problems</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/09/my-attitude-toward-problems/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 16:31:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/09/my-attitude-toward-problems/' addthis:title='My Attitude Toward Problems '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Do you have problems?  I know I do&#8230; We all have problems! I bet everyone reading this could make a list of the major problems in their life right now.  Well, what if we change our attitude toward the problems in our life?  I do my best to live my life everyday like this&#8230;  how [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/09/my-attitude-toward-problems/' addthis:title='My Attitude Toward Problems ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/09/my-attitude-toward-problems/' addthis:title='My Attitude Toward Problems '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p><a href="http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/09/my-attitude-toward-problems/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-457" style="margin: 10px;" title="&quot;A consistent positive mental attitude is a force that enables the beholder to overcome even the deepest of hindrances.&quot; - Lincoln Patz" src="http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/Attitude.jpg" alt="&quot;A consistent positive mental attitude is a force that enables the beholder to overcome even the deepest of hindrances.&quot; - Lincoln Patz" width="300" height="225" /></a>Do you have problems?  I know I do&#8230; We all have problems! I bet everyone reading this could make a list of the major problems in their life right now.  Well, what if we change our attitude toward the problems in our life?  I do my best to live my life everyday like this&#8230;  how about you?</p>
<p>&#8220;<em>Every problem or difficulty you face contains the seed of an equal or greater advantage or benefit</em>.&#8221; &#8211; Napoleon Hill</p>
<h3><strong>Change Your Attitude Toward Problems</strong></h3>
<p>By Brian Tracy</p>
<p>In flying, the word &#8220;attitude&#8221; refers to the angle of flight of your approach relative to the horizon. The way you think about a problem determines your attitude, or approach, as well. You can use three words to change your attitude and your approach to any difficulty you face.</p>
<p><strong>Situation</strong><br />
First of all, change the word &#8220;problem&#8221; to the word &#8220;situation.&#8221; Whereas &#8220;problem&#8221; is a negative word that triggers feelings of fear and anxiety, &#8220;situation&#8221; is neutral. Instead of saying, &#8220;We have a problem,&#8221; you can say, &#8220;We have a situation.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Challenge</strong><br />
My personal preference is to change the word &#8220;problem&#8221; to the word &#8220;challenge.&#8221; Whenever something goes wrong, immediately say, &#8220;We have an interesting challenge facing us today.&#8221; &#8220;Challenge&#8221; is a positive word. When you think of a challenge, you think of something that you rise to, something that brings out the best in you and others. Challenges are what make life exciting and worth living. By rising to the challenges of day-to-day life, you fulfill more and more of your potential.</p>
<p><strong>Opportunity</strong><br />
Perhaps the best word of all is &#8220;opportunity.&#8221; Instead of saying, &#8220;We have a problem,&#8221; you can say, &#8220;We have an unexpected opportunity.&#8221; Napoleon Hill is famous for saying, &#8220;Every problem or difficulty you face contains the seed of an equal or greater advantage or benefit.&#8221; Your job is to find the benefit, and this way of approaching a problem is determined by your attitude.</p>
<p><strong>Attitude</strong><br />
This attitude of looking for the good in every situation, of looking for the advantage or benefit in any problem or difficulty, is the way that the most successful people think most of the time. Superior people, leaders in all areas, face the inevitable ups and downs of daily life on the way to their destinations by taking complete control of their thinking and their emotions. They do this by choosing the words they use to describe a situation, their tone of voice, and their behavior in dealing with problems.</p>
<p><strong>Action Exercise</strong><br />
A mark of maturity, a vital quality on the road to success, happiness, and balance in life, is expecting problems and difficulties as normal, natural, and unavoidable parts of life. Becoming a superior person requires accepting that when you set off toward a big, exciting goal or destination, you will experience unexpected turbulence.</p>
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		<title>Crush It! by Gary Vaynerchuk</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/10/23/crush-it-gary-vaynerchuk/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 02:44:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/10/23/crush-it-gary-vaynerchuk/' addthis:title='Crush It! by Gary Vaynerchuk '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Crush It! Why NOW Is the Time to Cash In on Your Passion Do you have a hobby you wish you could indulge in all day? An obsession that keeps you up at night? Now is the perfect time to take that passion and make a living doing what you love.  In Crush It! Why [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/10/23/crush-it-gary-vaynerchuk/' addthis:title='Crush It! by Gary Vaynerchuk ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/10/23/crush-it-gary-vaynerchuk/' addthis:title='Crush It! by Gary Vaynerchuk '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p><strong>Crush It! Why NOW Is the Time to Cash In on Your Passion</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061914177?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=aronparkerblog-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0061914177" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft" style="border: 0pt none; margin: 10px;" title="Crush It!" src="http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/CrushIt-106x150.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="106" height="150" /></a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=aronparkerblog-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0061914177" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />Do you have a hobby you wish you could indulge in all day? An obsession that keeps you up at night? Now is the perfect time to take that passion and make a living doing what you love.  In Crush It! Why NOW Is the Time to Cash In on Your Passion, Gary Vaynerchuk shows you how to use the power of the Internet to turn your real interests into real businesses. Gary spent years building his family business from a local wine shop into a national industry leader. Then one day he turned on a video camera, and by using the secrets revealed here, transformed his entire life and earning potential by building his personal brand. By the end of this book, readers will have learned how to harness the power of the Internet to make their entrepreneurial dreams come true. Step by step, Crush It! is the ultimate driver&#8217;s manual for modern business.</p>
<p>This video montage really sums up why Gary wrote Crush It! and what it’s all about&#8230;</p>
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<p>&#8220;Gary Vaynerchuk is one of those entrepreneurs who has discovered the secret to combining passion with business. He is always an inspiration and always entertaining. You owe it to yourself to read this book!&#8221; (Tony Hsieh, CEO of Zappos.com )</p>
<p>&#8220;Gary is a force of nature. His authentic, raw passion and caring touches everyone. His insights into social media &amp; his message of opportunity could not be more timely.&#8221; (Tony Robbins )</p>
<p>&#8220;Gary was the first person to push me on the importance of personalbrand and transparency &#8211; this was months before anyone was talkingabout it, he&#8217;s always two steps ahead of anyone else.&#8221; (Kevin Rose, Founder of Digg.com )</p>
<p>&#8220;Anyone looking to supercharge their career should beg, borrow, and steal to learn Gary Vee&#8217;s techniques. He reinvented the rules to build a $60-million business from scratch-on his own terms.&#8221; (Tim Ferriss, #1 NY Times bestselling author of The 4-Hour Workweek )</p>
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		<title>Gary Vaynerchuk</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/10/22/gary-vaynerchuk/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 02:22:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/10/22/gary-vaynerchuk/' addthis:title='Gary Vaynerchuk '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Gary Vaynerchuk ROCKS! I am going to learn as much from Gary as I can! He took over his family business and built it from $2 million to $50 million! He has close to a million followers on Twitter! @garyvee This 15 minute video of Gary is awesome!!! Watch it, I know it can help [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/10/22/gary-vaynerchuk/' addthis:title='Gary Vaynerchuk ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/10/22/gary-vaynerchuk/' addthis:title='Gary Vaynerchuk '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>Gary Vaynerchuk ROCKS!</p>
<p>I am going to learn as much from Gary as I can!</p>
<p>He took over his family business and built it from $2 million to $50 million!</p>
<p>He has close to a million followers on Twitter! @garyvee</p>
<p>This 15 minute video of Gary is awesome!!!   Watch it, I know it can help you with your business and life in some way.</p>
<p><strong>Building Personal Brand Within the Social Media Landscape:</strong></p>
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<p>Below is an awesome interview of Gary Vaynerchuk!  </p>
<p><strong>CASH In On Your Passion</strong></p>
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		<title>Carpe Diem! Seize The Day!&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/09/04/carpe-diem-seize-this-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2009 19:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/09/04/carpe-diem-seize-this-day/' addthis:title='Carpe Diem! Seize The Day!&#8221; '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>This is actually one of the few things I still remember from high school&#8230; &#8220;Carpe Diem&#8221;, meaning Seize The Day. We were reading a book in English class when someone said &#8220;Carpe Diem&#8221; and explained what it meant. For some reason it really stuck with me over the years. I have remembered this saying and [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/09/04/carpe-diem-seize-this-day/' addthis:title='Carpe Diem! Seize The Day!&#8221; ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/09/04/carpe-diem-seize-this-day/' addthis:title='Carpe Diem! Seize The Day!&#8221; '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p><a href="http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/09/04/carpe-diem-seize-this-day/"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-391" title="Carpe Diem" src="http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/CarpeDiem-300x204.jpg" alt="Carpe Diem" width="300" height="204" /></a> This is actually one of the few things I still remember from high school&#8230; &#8220;Carpe Diem&#8221;, meaning Seize The Day.  We were reading a book in English class when someone said &#8220;Carpe Diem&#8221; and explained what it meant.  For some reason it really stuck with me over the years.  I have remembered this saying and what it means my whole life.</p>
<p>This is a great quote that I feel sums it up&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;<em>Learn from the past, set vivid, detailed goals for the future, and live in the only moment of time over which you have any control: NOW.</em>&#8221; &#8211; Denis Waitley</p>
<p>Here is what Denis Waitley has to say about it&#8230;</p>
<p>What each of us is doing this minute is the most important event in history for us. We have decided to invest our resources in this opportunity rather than in any other. It is helpful to remember this when we consider the passage of time.</p>
<p>As the years pass, I am acutely aware that the bird of time is on the wing. At my fiftieth high school reunion, I saw old people who claimed to be my former classmates. We all had big name tags printed in capital letters so we wouldn&#8217;t have to squint with our reading glasses on trying to associate the name with each well-traveled face. It was only yesterday that I was really enjoying high school. What had happened to the five decades in between? Where had they flown?</p>
<p>To the side of the bandstand, where the big-band sound of the late 1940s and 50s blared our favorite top-ten hits, there was a poster with a printed verse for all of us to see. I read the words out loud:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;There are two days in every week about which we should not worry, two days which should be kept free from fear and apprehension.</p>
<p>&#8220;One of these days is Yesterday, with its mistakes and cares, its faults and blunders, its aches and pains. Yesterday has passed forever beyond our control. All the money in the world cannot bring back Yesterday. We cannot undo a single act we performed; we cannot erase a single word we said. Yesterday is gone.</p>
<p>&#8220;The other day we should not worry about is Tomorrow, with its possible adversities, its burdens, its large promise, and poor performance. Tomorrow is also beyond our immediate control. Tomorrow&#8217;s sun will rise, either in splendor or behind a mask of clouds; but it will rise. Until it does, we have no stake in tomorrow, for it is as yet unborn. This leaves only one day: Today.</p>
<p>&#8220;Anyone can fight the battles of just one day. It is only when you and I add the burdens of those two awful eternities &#8211; Yesterday and Tomorrow &#8211; that we break down. It is not the experience of Today that drives us mad, it is remorse and bitterness for something which happened Yesterday and the dread of what Tomorrow may bring. Let us, therefore, live this one full Today.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p>Malcolm Forbes believed the important thing is never to say die until you&#8217;re dead, and he lived that example to the hilt. It is, as we realize when we suddenly attend our fiftieth high school reunion, a short journey. But it also is difficult to be depressed and active at the same time. So get active! And make today your best day ever!</p>
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