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		<title>Dear Friends&#8230;  I&#8217;m on a mission! (video)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 22:15:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<title>Stop Looking For a Job, Start Looking For An Opportunity</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2011 20:43:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/12/03/stop-looking-for-a-job-start-looking-for-an-opportunity/' addthis:title='Stop Looking For a Job, Start Looking For An Opportunity '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>By Darren Hardy A lot of jobs that once were, aren&#8217;t coming back. Ever. To look for what isn&#8217;t there is a waste of time and an insult to your dignity. If you haven&#8217;t noticed, the world has changed &#8212; radically. The traditional yellow brick road to success and financial security has imploded. The path [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/12/03/stop-looking-for-a-job-start-looking-for-an-opportunity/' addthis:title='Stop Looking For a Job, Start Looking For An Opportunity ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/12/03/stop-looking-for-a-job-start-looking-for-an-opportunity/' addthis:title='Stop Looking For a Job, Start Looking For An Opportunity '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>By <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&#038;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dnb_sb_ss_i_0_12%26field-keywords%3Ddarren%2520hardy%26url%3Dsearch-alias%253Daps%26sprefix%3Ddarren%2520hardy&#038;tag=aronparkerblog-20&#038;linkCode=ur2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957" target="_blank">Darren Hardy</a></p>
<p>A lot of jobs that once were, aren&#8217;t coming back. Ever. To look for what isn&#8217;t there is a waste of time and an insult to your dignity.</p>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t noticed, the world has changed &#8212; radically. The traditional yellow brick road to success and financial security has imploded. The path to a high-paying job used to involve getting the highest academic degree you could obtain, along with specific technical job skills, to start climbing the ladder. Today, most of the ladders are decimated. If those jobs still exist, the needed knowledge and skills of those jobs have changed&#8230; and change again every day. These are the greatest times of opportunity we have seen in human history &#8212; but only if you know how to seize them.</p>
<p>To succeed you need to change with the way the world is working now. If you are unemployed, underemployed, or want to take control of your financial future, here are seven strategies to thrive in the new world.</p>
<p>1. <strong>Adapt to the new reality.</strong></p>
<p>Over the last decade we have witnessed the death rattle of an era gone by. The corporate structure and monolithic systems of the industrial age have begun to crumble. We are returning to the way we started &#8212; as entrepreneurs. When America was founded, the majority of people had their own business, farm, market or trade. People used their skill sets and hobbies to make a living as entrepreneurs. Then the industrial age flipped the ratio and most people became employed by new systems of repetitive labor and mass production. Technology recently wired all of us directly to each other, destroying heavily controlled and highly valued distribution channels, giving every entrepreneur immediate and direct access to a global marketplace of opportunity, right from their fingertips&#8230; or laptop. This means competition doesn&#8217;t just come from the business down the street, but also from every basement or second bedroom of every home in every city or suburb in every country of the world. You better become a continual learner and constantly improve your special skills.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Stop looking for a job and start looking for an opportunity.</strong></p>
<p>Take the skills you have as an employee and turn those into a contract services business. You have an expertise, knowledge and experience in something that&#8217;s unique to you. Your skill set might be so unique you don&#8217;t even recognize it as personal expertise. What is your experience, knowledge or unique gifts? Ask a good friend, colleague or former employer to tell you. Once you discover your specialization, hire your expertise out, offer it to multiple businesses and entrepreneurs who need what you can deliver. More companies are hiring consultants and contractors for specific projects, specialized skills and services. Bartering services on the Internet are booming &#8212; sites like SwapASkil.com, UExchange.com, TradeAway.com and SwapThing.com.</p>
<p>3. <strong>What do you have?</strong></p>
<p>What goods do you have that others might want? What goods do you have easy access to that most do not? What goods can you make that people would want? Answer one or more of those questions and take it to market through eBay or an automated Amazon.com store. You also can write about your area of skill or expertise. You can create a how-to information book and sell it through ClickBank, create a podcast or video blog series and distribute it through iTunes or other distributions channels. Follow through on a great idea. There are probably thousands of people who want to know what you know or how to do what you do. Plus, it has never been cheaper to build, outfit and market your business than it is today. Vendors are flexible and partnerships are open.</p>
<p>4. <strong>Who do you know?</strong></p>
<p>If you want to calculate your potential for increased wealth, don&#8217;t look at your current bank balance, cars or property inventory. Look at the inventory of your high caliber relationships. With the Industrial Age over, we are now in the Relationship Age. Unequivocally, the relationships you build will be your No. 1 asset in these expanding and fast-changing times. Your ability to network is the skill you want to hone, practice and master. Your ability to get to, connect with and establish relationships with important and purposeful people will be your gateway to any goal, destination or aspiration you have.</p>
<p>5. <strong>What problem can you solve?</strong></p>
<p>The economic downturn has created a ton of new problems that need solving. Problems are food and oxygen for entrepreneurialism. Those who create solutions to our new problems will become the beneficiaries of these times. Remember, 90 percent of entrepreneurs started out at the bottom, broke or with little capital or savings. Today they are among the world&#8217;s wealthiest.</p>
<p>6. <strong>Return to self-reliance and self-responsibility.</strong></p>
<p>You make your choices; then your choices make you. Everything in your life exists because you made a choice about something. Choices are at the root of your results. Don&#8217;t choose at all and you&#8217;ve made the choice to be the passive receiver of whatever comes your way. Most people think they take responsibility for their lives, but many people operate in the world of blaming, finger pointing and expecting someone else &#8212; or the government &#8212; to solve their problems. You can&#8217;t count on anyone else for your success but you.</p>
<p>7. <strong>Take control of your future!</strong></p>
<p>Separate from everyone else by developing the mindset, habits, actions and persistence it&#8217;s going to take for personal accountability and control of your future. Your soft skills can give you the leading edge. With the mind-blowing velocity of change and throng of competition, the skills needed for success today are less about academic, industrial, or technical training and more about soft skills &#8212; emotional intelligence, adaptability, resiliency, relationship-building, accountability, productivity and leadership skills.</p>
<p>There are no secrets, shortcuts or quick fixes to success. It takes hard work, personal responsibility and positive choices. You already know all the information you need to succeed. You just need a new plan of action. Now is the time.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&#038;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dnb_sb_ss_i_0_12%26field-keywords%3Ddarren%2520hardy%26url%3Dsearch-alias%253Daps%26sprefix%3Ddarren%2520hardy&#038;tag=aronparkerblog-20&#038;linkCode=ur2&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957" target="_blank">Darren Hardy</a>, author of The Compound Effect: Jumpstart Your Income, Your Life, Your Success, has been a leader in the personal development industry for sixteen years, having led two personal development-based television networks, producing and launching more than a thousand television shows, live events, products, and programs with many of the world&#8217;s top experts.</p>
<p> As an entrepreneur, Darren was earning a six-figure income by age eighteen, more than a million dollars a year by age twenty-four, and owned a company producing $50 million a year in revenue by age twenty-seven. He has mentored thousands of entrepreneurs, advised many large corporations, and serves on the board of several companies and nonprofit organizations.</p>
<p> Now, as publisher and editorial director of SUCCESS magazine, Darren interviews leading experts on human performance and achievement, as well as many of today&#8217;s top CEOs, revolutionary entrepreneurs, superstar athletes, entertainers, and Olympic champions, to uncover and share the secrets behind their extraordinary success.</p>
<p> Darren is a popular keynote speaker and appears regularly on national radio and television shows for CNBC, MSNBC, CBS, ABC, and FOX.</p>
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		<title>Creating Opportunity</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Aug 2011 02:34:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/08/09/creating-opportunity/' addthis:title='Creating Opportunity '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>by Jim Rohn An enterprising person is one who comes across a pile of scrap metal and sees the making of a wonderful sculpture. An enterprising person is one who drives through an old decrepit part of town and sees a new housing development. An enterprising person is one who sees opportunity in all areas [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/08/09/creating-opportunity/' addthis:title='Creating Opportunity ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/08/09/creating-opportunity/' addthis:title='Creating Opportunity '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>by <a href="http://bit.ly/JimRohnSite" target="_blank">Jim Rohn</a></p>
<p>An enterprising person is one who comes across a pile of scrap metal and sees the making of a wonderful sculpture. An enterprising person is one who drives through an old decrepit part of town and sees a new housing development. An enterprising person is one who sees opportunity in all areas of life.</p>
<p>To be enterprising is to keep your eyes open and your mind active. It’s to be skilled enough, confident enough, creative enough and disciplined enough to seize opportunities that present themselves&#8230; regardless of the economy.</p>
<p>A person with an enterprising attitude says, &#8220;Find out what you can before action is taken.&#8221; Do your homework. Do the research. Be prepared. Be resourceful. Do all you can in preparation of what’s to come.</p>
<p>Enterprising people always see the future in the present. Enterprising people always find a way to take advantage of a situation, not be burdened by it. And enterprising people aren’t lazy. They don’t wait for opportunities to come to them; they go after the opportunities. Enterprise means always finding a way to keep yourself actively working toward your ambition.</p>
<p>Enterprise is two things. The first is creativity. You need creativity to see what’s out there and to shape it to your advantage. You need creativity to look at the world a little differently. You need creativity to take a different approach, to be different.</p>
<p>What goes hand in hand with the creativity of enterprise is the second requirement: the courage to be creative. You need courage to see things differently, courage to go against the crowd, courage to take a different approach, courage to stand alone if you have to, courage to choose activity over inactivity.</p>
<p>And lastly, being enterprising doesn’t just relate to the ability to make money. Being enterprising also means feeling good enough about yourself, having enough self-worth to want to seek advantages and opportunities that will make a difference in your future. And by doing so, you will increase your confidence, your courage, your creativity and your self-worth—your enterprising nature.</p>
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		<title>Get into the game of YOUR life!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Feb 2011 15:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/02/13/get-into-the-game-of-your-life/' addthis:title='Get into the game of YOUR life! '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Did you know that the primary difference between the 5 percent of people who are wealthy and those who are not is that the 95 percent focus their attention and extra time on entertainment, while the wealthy 5 percent invest their extra time in education. I don&#8217;t know about you but I want to be [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/02/13/get-into-the-game-of-your-life/' addthis:title='Get into the game of YOUR life! ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/02/13/get-into-the-game-of-your-life/' addthis:title='Get into the game of YOUR life! '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>Did you know that the primary difference between the 5 percent of people who are wealthy and  those who are not is that the <strong>95  percent focus their attention and extra  time on entertainment, while  the wealthy 5 percent invest their extra time in  education.</strong></p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know about you but I want to be in the 5% group of wealthy people in the world.  This is why I do my very best to focus any extra time that I have on education and building my own business.</p>
<p>I watch one football game per year&#8230; the Super Bowl.  (and mostly for the commercials)</p>
<p>The only time I watch TV is with my wife maybe once a week and we do rent 1-2 movies a week as well.</p>
<p>Click on the below link to read the rest of this post from <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dnb_sb_ss_i_0_12%26field-keywords%3Ddarren%2520hardy%26url%3Dsearch-alias%253Daps%26sprefix%3Ddarren%2520hardy&amp;tag=aronparkerblog-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957" target="_blank">Darren Hardy&#8217;s</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=aronparkerblog-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> blog. It&#8217;s awesome!  You can become part of the 5% group!</p>
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<blockquote><p><strong>Think about it:</strong> What if the time you spend…</p>
<ul>
<li>reading the sports page, you read a self-improvement book?</li>
<li>listening to sports talk radio, you listen to an instructional CD?</li>
<li>watching ESPN or Sports Center, you watch a seminar DVD or read a book?</li>
<li>talking about sports scores and players, you talk about your goals and plans  to achieve them?</li>
<li>playing fantasy sports, you role-play your key skills training?</li>
</ul>
<p>How would the trade of that time investment change your life scores and statistics? I’m certain it would make YOU victorious… and far happier.</p>
<p>Oh, and let’s not leave out the non-sports fans. What if the time you  spend…</p>
<ul>
<li>reading <em>People</em> magazine and other gossip rags, you read  <em>SUCCESS</em> magazine?</li>
<li>watching E! Entertainment, TMZ or Access Hollywood, you watched a seminar  DVD or read a book?</li>
<li>watching Keeping Up With the Kardashians, The Real Housewives, or Jersey  Shore, you read a book about YOUR reality?</li>
<li>talking (or gossiping) about other people’s lives and foibles, you talked  about your lessons learned in life and plans for growth?</li>
</ul>
<p>How would the trade of that time investment change your life scores and  statistics? I’m certain it would make you victorious, and far happier.</p>
<p>Am I saying that anytime spent on any of the above for entertainment value is  a bad thing? Of course not. What I am suggesting you look at, however, is the  balance between the time you spend watching other people live out their dreams  and the time you spend on making yours come true.</p>
<p>Last tip: Practice, train, develop, focus, and work as hard at your skills  and career as the people you watch and admire do at theirs. Imagine that!</p>
<p>(Read entire post from Darren Hardy&#8217;s blog here:<a href="http://darrenhardy.success.com/2011/02/get-in-the-game/" target="_blank"> http://darrenhardy.success.com/2011/02/get-in-the-game/</a>)</p></blockquote>
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		<title>The Two Choices We Face</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/02/05/the-two-choices-we-face/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Feb 2011 02:21:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/02/05/the-two-choices-we-face/' addthis:title='The Two Choices We Face '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>by Jim Rohn Each of us has two distinct choices to make about what we will do with our lives. The first choice we can make is to be less than we have the capacity to be. To earn less. To have less. To read less and think less. To try less and discipline ourselves [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/02/05/the-two-choices-we-face/' addthis:title='The Two Choices We Face ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2011/02/05/the-two-choices-we-face/' addthis:title='The Two Choices We Face '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>by <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dnb_sb_noss%26field-keywords%3DJim%2520Rohn%26url%3Dsearch-alias%253Daps&amp;tag=aronparkerblog-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957" target="_blank">Jim Rohn</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=aronparkerblog-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></p>
<p>Each of us has two distinct choices to make about what we will do with our lives. The first choice we can make is to be less than we have the capacity to be. To earn less. To have less. To read less and think less. To try less and discipline ourselves less. These are the choices that lead to an empty life. These are the choices that, once made, lead to a life of constant apprehension instead of a life of wondrous anticipation.<img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-711" style="border: 0pt none; margin: 10px;" title="The Choice is Yours" src="http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/Choices_Failure-Success-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p>And the second choice? To do it all! To become all that we can possibly be. To read every book that we possibly can. To earn as much as we possibly can. To give and share as much as we possibly can. To strive and produce and accomplish as much as we possibly can. All of us have the choice.</p>
<p>To do or not to do. To be or not to be. To be all or to be less or to be nothing at all.</p>
<p>Like the tree, it would be a worthy challenge for us all to stretch upward and outward to the full measure of our capabilities. Why not do all that we can, every moment that we can, the best that we can, for as long as we can?</p>
<p>Our ultimate life objective should be to create as much as our talent and ability and desire will permit. To settle for doing less than we could do is to fail in this worthiest of undertakings.</p>
<p>Results are the best measurement of human progress. Not conversation. Not explanation. Not justification. Results! And if our results are less than our potential suggests that they should be, then we must strive to become more today than we were the day before. The greatest rewards are always reserved for those who bring great value to themselves and the world around them as a result of whom and what they have become.</p>
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		<title>The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/27/the-jim-rohn-one-year-success-plan/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 01:34:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/27/the-jim-rohn-one-year-success-plan/' addthis:title='The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>The first half of 2010 is in the books. This is the perfect time to do a success checkup! If you’re not on course for reaching your 2010 goals, or you’ve lost momentum or you never even got started, you&#8217;ve got to check this out! The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan is one of the [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/27/the-jim-rohn-one-year-success-plan/' addthis:title='The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/27/the-jim-rohn-one-year-success-plan/' addthis:title='The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>The first half of 2010 is in the books. This is the perfect time to do a success checkup!</p>
<p>If you’re not on course for reaching your 2010 goals, or you’ve lost momentum or you never even got started, you&#8217;ve got to check this out!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.jimrohn.com/index.php?main_page=page&amp;id=1130&amp;refid=ParkerMarketing" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-586" style="margin: 10px;" title="Jim Rohn Success Plan" src="http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Jim_Rohn_Success_Plan.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="240" /></a>The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan is one of the most comprehensive success courses ever created. The 12-month program, developed by the late personal-achievement legend, will empower you to grow and continually transform yourself while focusing on a new pillar of success each month—and you can jump right in no matter what time of the year it is!</p>
<p>You’ll receive regular encouragement to stay on track, take positive action and move ahead with the motivation to achieve the life of your dreams!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.jimrohn.com/index.php?main_page=page&amp;id=1130&amp;refid=ParkerMarketing" target="_blank">Click here</a> now to view a short video from SUCCESS magazine publisher Darren Hardy talking about why he strongly endorses The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan.</p>
<p><strong>Experience the power of  <em>The Jim Rohn One-Year Success Plan</em>!</strong></p>
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		<title>Are you an entrepreneur?</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/14/are-you-an-entrepreneur/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 16:19:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/14/are-you-an-entrepreneur/' addthis:title='Are you an entrepreneur? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>I can remember ever since I was a kid I wanted to own my own business and become a millionaire&#8230;. I wanted to be an entrepreneur just like my dad.  He has owned his own small business for 30 years!  He works his butt off 6 days a week and I&#8217;m very proud of him [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/14/are-you-an-entrepreneur/' addthis:title='Are you an entrepreneur? ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/14/are-you-an-entrepreneur/' addthis:title='Are you an entrepreneur? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>I can remember ever since I was a kid I wanted to own my own business and become a millionaire&#8230;. I wanted to be an entrepreneur just like my dad.  He has owned his own small business for 30 years!  He works his butt off 6 days a week and I&#8217;m very proud of him for what he does.</p>
<p>I am currently working at a J.O.B. to support my family, which there is nothing wrong with, BUT I am sick and tired of trading my time for dollars!  It&#8217;s time to step up and build my own business!  I&#8217;m ready to own my own time!  How about you?  NOW is the time to build your own business, become an entrepreneur and start living life day to day the way YOU want to, not how someone else tells you to.</p>
<p>So, I am building my business (<a href="http://www.facebook.com/ParkerMarketing" target="_blank">Parker Marketing</a>) part-time, with a full-time attitude!  My goal is to fire my boss within 6-12 months!</p>
<p>If you are ready, this is a great article from <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/search?ie=UTF8&amp;keywords=Darren%20Hardy&amp;tag=aronparkerblog-20&amp;index=books&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325" target="_blank">Darren Hardy</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=aronparkerblog-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> (from The special <a href="http://www.successmagazine.com/issue?editionId=37" target="_blank">Entrepreneurship Issue of SUCCESS</a>) to help get you started&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Power to the Entrepreneur!</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.successmagazine.com/issue?editionId=37" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-567" style="margin: 10px;" title="July 2010 - Success Magazine" src="http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/SM_10_07_COLE-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>We know you’re the type of person who wants more out of life; your career isn’t about a paycheck, it’s about creating your best possible life and becoming your best possible self. That’s why, even though we pride ourselves on offering you meaningful content every issue, I believe this edition is one of the most important issues we offer all year.</p>
<p>Entrepreneurialism is the heart of our economic system. In a time when everyone is claiming there’s no work to be had, entrepreneurs are out there creating jobs. In fact, an entrepreneur pursuing his or her passion is the greatest stimulus package there is.</p>
<p>Today, according to stats from the Small Business Administration, small businesses:<br />
• Represent 99.7 percent of all employer firms<br />
• Employ more than half the private-sector employees<br />
• Pay 44 percent of the total U.S. private payroll<br />
• Have generated more than 64 percent of all new jobs during the past 15 years<br />
• And create more than half the private gross domestic product</p>
<p>Entrepreneurialism is also the heart of the American dream. Taking control of our dreams, pursuing our passions and following through on that wild idea not only makes life more enjoyable—it pays well! Eighty percent of self-made millionaires became millionaires because they started their own business.</p>
<p>There has never been a better time to be an entrepreneur. At the beginning of the 20th century there were a mere 5,000 millionaires. By 1950 there were 100,000; 1980—1 million; 1990—2 million. By the year 2000, that number had reached 7 million.</p>
<p>Today, more than 10 million men and women have reached that coveted but not-so-elite status. Want even better news? That number is expected to double in the next 10 years. Now is the time—and this is the resource—that will help you figure out how to claim the rewards of being a successful entrepreneur.</p>
<p>One more encouraging statistic: Even though entrepreneurs are among the world’s wealthiest, 90 percent of all entrepreneurs started out at the bottom, broke or with little to no capital or savings.</p>
<p>Anyone can become an entrepreneur–and at any age. You see, being an entrepreneur isn’t about who or what you know; it’s about what you do. The skills and knowledge you need to succeed are all attainable.</p>
<p>Here’s to your entrepreneurial success!</p></blockquote>
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		<title>The Compound Effect</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jun 2010 03:55:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/10/the-compound-effect/' addthis:title='The Compound Effect '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>I just started reading Darren Hardy&#8217;s new book, The Compound Effect, and absolutely love it!  This is such a simple book with just 6 chapters, but don&#8217;t let that fool you.  All I can say is if you are looking to have success in any area of your life, you have got to read this [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/10/the-compound-effect/' addthis:title='The Compound Effect ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/10/the-compound-effect/' addthis:title='The Compound Effect '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p><a href="http://aronparker.com/blog/2010/06/10/the-compound-effect/"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-553" title="The-Compound-Effect" src="http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Compound-Effect-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>I just started reading Darren Hardy&#8217;s new book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0981951244?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=aronparkerblog-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0981951244" target="_blank">The Compound Effect</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=aronparkerblog-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0981951244" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />, and absolutely love it!  This is such a simple book with just 6 chapters, but don&#8217;t let that fool you.  All I can say is if you are looking to have success in any area of your life, you have got to read this book.</p>
<p>This is what John C. Maxwell has to say about it&#8230; &#8220;The Compound Effect is a must-read book for success seekers. You want to know what it takes? You want to know what to do? It&#8217;s all in these pages. The Compound Effect is a clear and concise success operation manual!&#8221;</p>
<p>Here is the bottom line&#8230;   (from <a href="http://www.successmagazine.com/the-compound-effect/PARAMS/article/1071/channel/22" target="_blank">Success.com</a>)</p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0981951244?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=aronparkerblog-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0981951244" target="_blank">The Compound Effect</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=aronparkerblog-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0981951244" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> is the principle of reaping huge rewards from a series of small, smart choices. What’s most interesting about this process to me is that, even though the results are massive, the steps, in the moment, don’t feel significant. Whether you’re using this strategy for improving your health, relationships, finances, or anything else for that matter, the changes are so subtle, they’re almost imperceptible. These small changes offer little or no immediate result, no big win, no obvious I-told-you-so payoff. So why bother?</p>
<p>Your only path to success is through a continuum of mundane, unsexy, unexciting, and sometimes difficult daily disciplines compounded over time. The results, the life and the lifestyle of your dreams can be yours when you put the Compound Effect to work for you. If you use the principles outlined in The Compound Effect, you will create your fairy tale ending!</p></blockquote>
<p>Here is where you can buy the book and also get some awesome free resources&#8230; <a href="http://TheCompoundEffect.com" target="_blank">http://TheCompoundEffect.com</a></p>
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		<title>Focus On The Opportunities! by Donald Trump</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 15:57:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/13/focus-on-the-opportunities-by-donald-trump/' addthis:title='Focus On The Opportunities! by Donald Trump '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>The following question was submitted to &#8220;Ask Donald Trump&#8221; by a Trump University member. Question: You have faced some really big challenges and some very difficult circumstances in your life. What activities, words of wisdom and other tools do you use to get yourself back up to remain positive? What advice would you offer to [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/13/focus-on-the-opportunities-by-donald-trump/' addthis:title='Focus On The Opportunities! by Donald Trump ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p>The following question was submitted to &#8220;Ask Donald Trump&#8221; by a Trump University member.</p>
<p>Question:</p>
<p>You have faced some really big challenges and some very difficult circumstances in your life. What activities, words of wisdom and other tools do you use to get yourself back up to remain positive? What advice would you offer to anyone struggling today?</p>
<p>Mr. Trump&#8217;s Response:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Your focus is very important&#8211;so be sure to focus on the opportunities, because they are always there. For example, if 90% of companies aren’t hiring, then focus on the 10% that are. I learned to focus less on the problem and more on the solution, which works. Do not allow negativity to cloud your goals or ambitions. Great things have been accomplished in hard and even tumultuous times.</em></p>
<p><em>When I faced difficult circumstances, I didn’t underestimate the problems but I refused to give in to them. Realize that you are very strong and very capable. Inspirational quotes help too. Here’s one from Emerson to think about when you might be doubting yourself: “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” I knew I was resilient and focused on the great things I would do once I got through the hard times. I would also ask myself, “Is this a blip or is it a catastrophe?” Earthquakes, wars, tsunamis&#8211;those are catastrophes. Put things into perspective and know that within you is the power to persevere and win. </em></p></blockquote>
<p>Here is a direct link to the Trump Blog where I got this post&#8230;   <a href="http://www.trumpuniversity.com/blog/post/2009/08/focus-on-the-opportunities.cfm" target="_blank">http://www.trumpuniversity.com/blog/post/2009/08/focus-on-the-opportunities.cfm</a></p>
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		<title>My Attitude Toward Problems</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 16:31:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/09/my-attitude-toward-problems/' addthis:title='My Attitude Toward Problems '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Do you have problems?  I know I do&#8230; We all have problems! I bet everyone reading this could make a list of the major problems in their life right now.  Well, what if we change our attitude toward the problems in our life?  I do my best to live my life everyday like this&#8230;  how [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/09/my-attitude-toward-problems/' addthis:title='My Attitude Toward Problems ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/09/my-attitude-toward-problems/' addthis:title='My Attitude Toward Problems '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p><a href="http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/11/09/my-attitude-toward-problems/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-457" style="margin: 10px;" title="&quot;A consistent positive mental attitude is a force that enables the beholder to overcome even the deepest of hindrances.&quot; - Lincoln Patz" src="http://aronparker.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/Attitude.jpg" alt="&quot;A consistent positive mental attitude is a force that enables the beholder to overcome even the deepest of hindrances.&quot; - Lincoln Patz" width="300" height="225" /></a>Do you have problems?  I know I do&#8230; We all have problems! I bet everyone reading this could make a list of the major problems in their life right now.  Well, what if we change our attitude toward the problems in our life?  I do my best to live my life everyday like this&#8230;  how about you?</p>
<p>&#8220;<em>Every problem or difficulty you face contains the seed of an equal or greater advantage or benefit</em>.&#8221; &#8211; Napoleon Hill</p>
<h3><strong>Change Your Attitude Toward Problems</strong></h3>
<p>By Brian Tracy</p>
<p>In flying, the word &#8220;attitude&#8221; refers to the angle of flight of your approach relative to the horizon. The way you think about a problem determines your attitude, or approach, as well. You can use three words to change your attitude and your approach to any difficulty you face.</p>
<p><strong>Situation</strong><br />
First of all, change the word &#8220;problem&#8221; to the word &#8220;situation.&#8221; Whereas &#8220;problem&#8221; is a negative word that triggers feelings of fear and anxiety, &#8220;situation&#8221; is neutral. Instead of saying, &#8220;We have a problem,&#8221; you can say, &#8220;We have a situation.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Challenge</strong><br />
My personal preference is to change the word &#8220;problem&#8221; to the word &#8220;challenge.&#8221; Whenever something goes wrong, immediately say, &#8220;We have an interesting challenge facing us today.&#8221; &#8220;Challenge&#8221; is a positive word. When you think of a challenge, you think of something that you rise to, something that brings out the best in you and others. Challenges are what make life exciting and worth living. By rising to the challenges of day-to-day life, you fulfill more and more of your potential.</p>
<p><strong>Opportunity</strong><br />
Perhaps the best word of all is &#8220;opportunity.&#8221; Instead of saying, &#8220;We have a problem,&#8221; you can say, &#8220;We have an unexpected opportunity.&#8221; Napoleon Hill is famous for saying, &#8220;Every problem or difficulty you face contains the seed of an equal or greater advantage or benefit.&#8221; Your job is to find the benefit, and this way of approaching a problem is determined by your attitude.</p>
<p><strong>Attitude</strong><br />
This attitude of looking for the good in every situation, of looking for the advantage or benefit in any problem or difficulty, is the way that the most successful people think most of the time. Superior people, leaders in all areas, face the inevitable ups and downs of daily life on the way to their destinations by taking complete control of their thinking and their emotions. They do this by choosing the words they use to describe a situation, their tone of voice, and their behavior in dealing with problems.</p>
<p><strong>Action Exercise</strong><br />
A mark of maturity, a vital quality on the road to success, happiness, and balance in life, is expecting problems and difficulties as normal, natural, and unavoidable parts of life. Becoming a superior person requires accepting that when you set off toward a big, exciting goal or destination, you will experience unexpected turbulence.</p>
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