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		<title>Are you happy NOW?  Will it ever get better?</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/03/27/are-you-happy-now-will-it-ever-get-better/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 22:59:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Happy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/03/27/are-you-happy-now-will-it-ever-get-better/' addthis:title='Are you happy NOW?  Will it ever get better? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>If you&#8217;re looking back on the past year (or 5, 10) and you&#8217;re NOT happy with where you are now, IT WILL NEVER GET BETTER. Not if you keep doing the same stuff that&#8217;s gotten you the results you&#8217;re not happy with. &#8230; you gotta change what you&#8217;re doing! It&#8217;s not working. If it was, [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/03/27/are-you-happy-now-will-it-ever-get-better/' addthis:title='Are you happy NOW?  Will it ever get better? ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2012/03/27/are-you-happy-now-will-it-ever-get-better/' addthis:title='Are you happy NOW?  Will it ever get better? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>If you&#8217;re looking back on the past year (or 5, 10) and you&#8217;re NOT happy with where you are now, IT WILL NEVER GET BETTER.</p>
<p>Not if you keep doing the same stuff that&#8217;s gotten you the results you&#8217;re not happy with.</p>
<p>&#8230; you gotta change what you&#8217;re doing!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not working.</p>
<p>If it was, you&#8217;d be thrilled with your progress.</p>
<p>But if you&#8217;re not, then it&#8217;s time to change.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s how to do it:</p>
<p><strong>1. Get absolutely focused on what you really want.</strong></p>
<p>Do this by TURNING OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER<br />
and just writing down the answer to this question:</p>
<p>&#8220;What do I REALLY want?&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>2. Dump The Crap Out Of Your Brain.</strong></p>
<p>You do this by writing down a huge list of EVERYTHING you THINK gotta do to in order to do what you REALLY want.</p>
<p>Just doing that will kind of &#8220;clear it from your brain&#8221; and free up space in your &#8220;mental computer&#8217;s&#8221; RAM.</p>
<p><strong>3. Decide what&#8217;s doable.</strong></p>
<p>You know that big list you just made that&#8217;s probably freaking you out?</p>
<p>Go through it and put star by all the stuff you can actually do.</p>
<p><strong>4. Decide what you can do NOW.</strong></p>
<p>Now. You know all the stuff with stars by it?</p>
<p>The stuff you can actually DO?</p>
<p>Go through all of it and find the stuff you can do in the next 30 days.</p>
<p>Put two stars by those items.</p>
<p><strong>5. Screw the other stuff.</strong></p>
<p>All the other stuff can be dealt with later.</p>
<p>Now &#8211; let me address critics in the audience who want to debate whether or not that&#8217;s a good strategy.</p>
<p>&#8220;Isn&#8217;t that procrastination?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Isn&#8217;t that other stuff important?&#8221;</p>
<p>The answer to both questions is &#8230;PROBABLY!</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s the deal.</p>
<p>You can&#8217;t do anything about it right now, and if you worry about it then you&#8217;re just taking away focus and energy from the stuff you CAN do.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s not going to get you anywhere.</p>
<p>Also &#8211; actually DO the &#8220;immediately doable&#8221; things for the next 30 days, my experience tells me that your momentum will be so great you&#8217;ll actually be able to easily do a lot of the things from your list you originally thought were impossible for you.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll also have new clarity and will probably find that much of the other stuff on the list isn&#8217;t even needed.</p>
<p><strong>6. GET TO WORK.</strong></p>
<p>Listen.</p>
<p>If you get all caught up on the little details, you&#8217;ll be in the same place a year from now.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t let that happen.</p>
<p><strong>7. ACCEPT REALITY</strong></p>
<p>You wanna know something?</p>
<p>This is NOT gonna be easy&#8230;</p>
<p>But what other options do you have&#8230;</p>
<p>To keep living in regret?</p>
<p>To keep looking back year after year NOT happy with were you are TODAY?</p>
<p>STOP the insanity!  Follow these steps and make change NOW!  </p>
<p>You will be so glad you did!</p>
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		<title>How to have a terrific day every day</title>
		<link>http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/06/23/how-to-have-a-terrific-day-every-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 13:24:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Aron</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Success]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Ed Forema]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Happy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Potential]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/06/23/how-to-have-a-terrific-day-every-day/' addthis:title='How to have a terrific day every day '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Ed Foreman is the only person in 100 years to be elected to the U.S. Congress from two states&#8230; New Mexico and Texas. He&#8217;s had enormous success as an entrepreneur, and for more than a quarter century, he has been helping people to have better lives with his Successful Life Course. Here are some of [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/06/23/how-to-have-a-terrific-day-every-day/' addthis:title='How to have a terrific day every day ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://aronparker.com/blog/2009/06/23/how-to-have-a-terrific-day-every-day/' addthis:title='How to have a terrific day every day '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p>Ed Foreman is the only person in 100 years to be elected to the U.S. Congress from two states&#8230; New Mexico and Texas. He&#8217;s had enormous success as an entrepreneur, and for more than a quarter century, he has been helping people to have better lives with his Successful Life Course.</p>
<p>Here are some of his principles for having a terrific day every day:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8220;Life comes to you every day and says, Here&#8217;s the menu for the day. You can either have a terrible day or a terrific day. And you get to choose the side of the menu you are going to take.&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Put something positive in your mind when you first wake up. &#8220;When you first awaken, you&#8217;re at the alpha level of your subconscious mind, which is the maximum brain energy learning level. And whatever you put into your mind during those first few minutes begins the programming of your day.&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Take a walk in the morning to watch the world wake up. &#8220;Observe the beauty in nature around you, smell the freshness in the air, begin to appreciate and give thanks for the many blessings you enjoy.&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">If you are thinking about unhappiness or adversity, change the channel. &#8220;I tell people to think about what you&#8217;re thinking about. And if you&#8217;re not thinking good thoughts, then change the channel to what you want to have happen.&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">&#8220;My definition of success is the difference between where you are and the use of your full potential. Each of you has a multiplicity of talents, and you need to exercise all of your potential to reach your dreams,&#8221; Hansen says.</p>
<p>Read this month&#8217;s Legend Series article about Ed Foreman, on SuccessMagazine.com &#8211; <a href="http://www.successmagazine.com/isnt-life-terrific/PARAMS/article/722" target="_blank">http://www.successmagazine.com/isnt-life-terrific/PARAMS/article/722</a></p>
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